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my mother, 94, lay slowly dying. She was skeletal, feeble, disoriented,
delusional and agitated, and she slept fitfully. She took water by medicine
dropper and refused all food. Helpful, caring hospice and health care workers
attended her in my brother's house around the clock.
Three days later, although still occasionally confused, she sat at the
kitchen table requesting pancakes for breakfast and making sharp-witted remarks.
Two weeks later, her mental condition and energy level were essentially normal
for the first time in years. A month later, her weight was normal.
How did this miracle occur? That isn't the first question to ask. Instead, it
is "How did a bright, happy, energetic, elderly woman get in such bad shape?"
The answer is drugs.
Not heroin or anything illicit, but prescription drugs given by reputable
doctors with the best of intentions.
Ten years ago, after my father died, my mother's internist prescribed an
antidepressant. A few years later, her cardiologist prescribed a potassium
supplement and a diuretic. Her ophthalmologist prescribed three types of
eyedrops for glaucoma.
She became increasingly lethargic, and in recent years, she could not even
force herself to write a note or call a friend. She ate and drank less and less.
Last spring, she essentially stopped eating, became disoriented and could not
sleep. Her internist prescribed sleeping pills, to no avail. He added a typical
antipsychotic drug.
Her decline was so pronounced that hospice nurses were called in. As a last
attempt, the doctor prescribed morphine, to ease the pain of dying, we suppose.
When I went to see her, she barely recognized me.
Learning earlier of her rapidly declining condition, I began to talk to
friends and professionals. A chance observation by a visiting relative that my
mother was "being given a lot of pills" started my thinking. Few liquids; many
medications, including a diuretic; inactivity; lower metabolism rate with age;
and no appetite. She must be dehydrated and overmedicated.
Studies have shown that the feeling of thirst declines with age. A result is
that many older people frequently drink fewer liquids than needed for optimum
health. That causes medications to concentrate in the body, and older people
generally have lower metabolisms, meaning that they also do not eliminate drugs
as quickly.
When I looked up the possible side effects of the drugs that she was taking,
including eyedrops, there they were, almost in every case disorientation of
time and place, agitation, difficulty sleeping and loss of appetite.
The internist, instead of carefully reviewing her medications for possible
side effects, reducing dosage, checking content levels in the blood or
considering the possibility of dehydration, had prescribed more drugs to
medicate the increasing side effects, thereby speeding her decline.
First we stopped the morphine. Next, after checking professionals and reading
the literature, we stopped the antipsychotic, antidepressant, diuretic and
potassium supplement.
With the concurrence of the ophthalmologist, we eliminated one of the
eyedrops for glaucoma. We encouraged liquids and gave her a low dose of a
new-generation antipsychotic drug recommended to me by a professional in the
field. Its main side effects were more appetite and drowsiness.
The results were astounding. She slept through the night. Her agitation
stopped. Her thinking cleared markedly. She started eating and drinking
heartily, and her mood elevated sharply.
We will never know which drug or drugs caused the problems.
My mother's leg muscles atrophied during her extended inactivity. She is now
receiving assistance and physical rehabilitation at a nursing home, and she has
no recollection of her ordeal.
What did I learn? That it is dangerous to grow old. Problems that would cause
great concern if exhibited by a younger person may be dismissed or ignored in
the elderly.
With their typically large caseloads, even excellent doctors may simply
prescribe new medication for symptoms rather than take the time to investigate
the other possibilities. There may not be enough communication among multiple
doctors about what drugs are being prescribed.
I now understand how important it is to be vigilant and to be unafraid to
question your doctor about any concerns.
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